Looking back on my childhood, I draw
the conclusion that my three sisters and I grew up in an almost Norman Rockwellian atmosphere. Not in the sense that we lived in an area
where the geography or the scenery was postcard perfect, but in the sense of
the aura of peace and tranquility that a painting by Norman Rockwell inevitably
presents. In the eyes of Norman Rockwell
the view was always comfortable, quiet, serene, and safe, and he had an uncanny
skill in capturing the essence of the best of the human spirit.
Throughout his adult life, my father worked
hard to provide for his family. The
tradition of the husband provider and the wife home keeper was embedded in the
culture of the time, and my father was successful in providing his family a comfortable
home. My mother took her home duties
seriously, and none of us ever missed a home cooked meal or went to school
wearing torn clothes.
Though my father worked hard practically
fifty weeks out of the year, he determinedly set aside at least two weeks every
summer for our family to take a Vacation.
I capitalize that word because to us kids it was more than just a trip;
we were to travel to our version of Paradise
on Earth…namely, Noel, Missouri. We had discovered this haven of happiness
when Dad decided about 1950 to go back to his roots…at least as far as he could
go. Though Dad was born in western Oklahoma, many of his
older brothers and sisters had been born in southwestern Missouri and northwestern Arkansas.
He had learned that many of his uncles and aunts still lived in that
region of the Ozark Mountains, so, about 1950,
we took our first vacation to the area to see how many old relatives he could
find. He knew that his grandfather
Thomas Findlay Downing had been a circuit riding preacher who traveled from
town to town in the area on horseback preaching the gospel and saving
sinners. Reverend Downing had also
hauled logs on wagons pulled by horses to earn a little more money to keep body
and spirit together and eventually established a church just outside Southwest City, Missouri,
where he pastored for several years.
Years later, Dad ran across an old character in Pineville, Missouri,
who remembered Preacher Downing and stated that he had admired Preacher Downing
because “he was the only preacher who would walk into a bar through the front
door…all the rest of the preachers snuck in the back.” Apparently, the ministerial expectations were
somewhat more relaxed back then.
Anyway, on this summer day in 1950, we
cruised into Noel, Missouri,
in our black 1949 Mercury. Noel was
then, and is probably now, a sleepy town of about 800 inhabitants. Its main claim to fame is Elk
River, which passes through Noel on its way to Lake
of the Cherokees in Oklahoma. In this far northwestern edge of the Ozarks,
the rivers are fed by clears springs, and the water, moving with a current that
can be slow to near-rapids, is cool and clear.
Because a dam had been built across the river just downstream from Noel
back in the twenties to generate electricity, the river had backed up and
deepened so that the waters through Noel were fairly deep. In fact, the two mile or so stretch through
Noel is called Shadow
Lake. In the thirties and forties, the Noel
townspeople begin to exploit this natural treasure, and, by the time we arrived
there in the summer of 1950, Noel was a beehive of activity. (See photo) To add to the scenic nature,
there were majestic bluffs which overhung the river, and when several roads
were cut through these bluffs, tourists came from far and near to drive their
cars underneath these hanging bluffs and marvel at the engineering feats.
We drove through the little town, and we
kids got more excited by the minute as we saw swimmers, boaters, and other kids
running and screaming like wild banshees.
It had taken us nearly two days to get there from Baytown, so my sister and I were ready to
take off like rockets. But Dad insisted
we find a place of lodging to unpack and unwind, so we drove along U.S. Highway
71 looking for a place to light. We
drove along the river for about a mile until we came to a place that would
become a part of our lives for probably as long as any of us children
live: Green Valley Courts.
Now, I realize that the name is not very impressive. Today, to impress someone with your vacation plans, you must mention Disneyworld, Hawaii, St. John, Fiji, or some other exotic spot. But things were not quite the same 60+ years ago. When we kids rolled into
the driveway of Green Valley Courts, it was as if we had died and gone straight
to heaven. The courts themselves were individual log cabins, each with a
swing. There was an actual modest
valley, shaded with oaks and other tall trees, through which passed the most
gorgeous stream or creek, whatever you wanted to call it, we had ever
seen. Before we even went to register,
our whole family bailed out of the car, and rushed down to the stream (our name
for it) and stuck, first our hands, and then our feet into the water. The water was coming from a spring barely
three miles away and was icy cold, rushing rapidly over smooth, round rocks
with a burbling sound that was sublimely soothing. Many times in our visits we would put a
watermelon in the water overnight and it would be wonderfully cold by the next
morning. On this first visit, Dad barely
had time to register and unpack before we were all back down to the water’s
edge. For the next two weeks, Dad would
drag us away from “our stream” while we visited his relatives, but we counted
the minutes until we were back to adopted home.
In the years to follow, Dad would throw out suggestions for some other
place for our vacation, but we always wound up in Noel. In 1959, Dad and Mom decided to go to Virginia instead (more
relatives.) We drove three hard days and
finally stopped in Bristol, Virginia (barely into Virginia), but we kids had moaned
and groaned so much, that Dad finally asked us, “What do you want to do?” In unison, we yelled, “Noel!” We turned around and went back to Noel.
Needless to say, over the years we’ve had many memorable times in Noel,
but in 1957, and event took place that at the time didn’t seem like much, but
it is actually the basis on which this little essay is established. It was June of 1957, and as usual we were all
in the stream’s water having a glorious time.
Just about a hundred feet upstream from where we played was a bridge
over which ran the road to Southwest
City. On this particular day Dad and I wandered
upstream to where we were beneath the concrete bridge. The stream with its bed of smooth, round rocks
was a perfect resource for rock throwing, and we were constantly bouncing rocks
off the water’s surface or at some target.
For some reason, I picked up a rock and scraped the concrete support of
the bridge. I found I could write as if
I were holding a pencil!
My mother always had a mantra she believed
in: “Fools’ names and fools’ faces always appear in public places!” For
some reason both Dad and I forgot Mom’s observation and we scraped our names and
the date on the side of the bridge.
“Bobby Downing 6/27/57” “R L Downing 6/27/57” In a few minutes we lost interest and
returned downstream to the rest of the family and enjoyed the rest of the
day. In time we forgot about our
actions. I was 14 years old and Dad was
39.
Starting in 1950 and for nearly 30 years, Noel was a summer gathering
place for our family. Eventually I had
three sisters to compete with, and believe it or not, my wife and I spent our
honeymoon at Green Valley Courts in 1961.
In time our children came along and both of them have made pilgrimages
to Noel. Although Green Valley Courts
disappeared in the seventies after being converted to small apartments, we
continued to visit Noel, although we had to stay in “less satisfactory”
accommodation…i.e., no stream to play in.
In the mid-seventies, my family moved to Wyoming and lived there seventeen
years. My dad died in the nineties,
during which time Noel took a turn for the worse because Tyson Foods built a
huge chicken processing plant in Noel which ruined the river and attracted
transients and illegals from miles afar to work for minimum wage in the chicken
plant. Noel was no longer the haven of
peace as before. The last time I visited Noel, three years ago, there were heavily shrouded, masked women walking the sidewalks, cafes advertising "Genuine African Cuisine!" and suspicious sorts wearing hoodies in ninety-degree weather watching your moves. We have our memories, but Noel is no more.
In 2007, my wife and I visited Branson,
Missouri, which, of course,
anyone over the age of sixty is required to visit sooner or later. After our visit, however, we scheduled
ourselves to travel to Grove, Oklahoma,
to visit my sister Kathy and her husband.
To travel from Branson to Grove is a westerly trip, and, as luck would
have it, we were to travel to within about ten miles of Noel. A pang of nostalgia struck me as I got closer
to Noel, and, finally, at the last minute, I made a turn and drove the familiar
road along the river to Noel. In fifty years,
the road had changed little, except it was no longer U.S. Highway 71, but a
county highway. Highway 71 had long since
been rerouted to bypass Noel, which destroyed the tourism business. Eventually we drove into Noel, and whatever
glamour was there earlier had long been washed away. Noel was a ghost of its lively past. After being depressed for ten minutes or so,
we decided to drive on to Grove. As we were leaving, I suddenly realized that
we were going to pass the site of the old Green Valley Courts, and then I
remembered the bridge.
After we drove over the bridge, I pulled
the car off the road and stopped. I’m
sure Shirley thought I had lost my mind when I told her what I was going to do. I took my camera and tried to find a path
down to the stream. By this time the
stream was barely visible through the bushes, grass, and shrubbery. I also thought about water moccasins because
they are plentiful in that area of the hills.
Gingerly I climbed down the embankment to the water, and, finding no
place to walk along the edge, I put my nice, white sneakers into the water and
waded out. The water was just as cold
and clear as I remembered. I was a
little upstream of the bridge, so I waded down toward the concrete embankment,
keeping a sharp eye for land or water varmints.
I reached the bridge and, walking underneath, looked up.
Fifty years later, the names were still
clearly visible (see photo.) I placed my
hand on the letters and suddenly my eyes filled with tears. For a moment I longed to return to those
innocent days of youth, and my heart ached to see my mom and dad. Only one other time in my life have I ever
felt as lonely as I felt under that bridge that day. It almost felt like judgment
day when I realized that the words on the bridge were written when I was only
fourteen and my future was ahead of me, and now I was sixty-four and the
majority of my life had passed, ever so quickly it seemed. I made a quick summary of my life’s
accomplishments, and the list seemed so embarrassingly short. Looking further down the stream, the little
area where we children and parents used to play and laugh was choked with vines
and weeds, but in my mind, I saw it as it once was. I was reminded of the scripture, ” For what
is your life? It is but a vapour that
appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away.”
Eventually, after taking a few photos, I
came to the realization that I have been very fortunate. My childhood was the stuff of dreams…. not
wealth and riches, but rather a home with caring parents and loving
sisters. We have gone our separate ways
and now have our own families and dreams.
I have been blessed with a wonderful wife, children, grandchildren, and
even in-laws. We have created our own
special places and memories. As F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote in his story The
Great Gatsby, “You can’t go home
again.” In 2012 I returned to the bridge; my name and my dad's name were still there...fifty-five years after the event. I have had a good life.